A tantra massage for men is a holistic experience of a therapeutic nature of the whole body that can activate and expand your sexual energy and increase your consciousness. This massage uses various techniques that activate sexual energy and can help release blockages and trauma, which can prevent you from experiencing deep sexual pleasure, multiple orgasms, the ability to channel and move energy as well as the one from your partner. Through specific pressure points, you can experience extraordinary spiritual and energetic effects.
This massage is done with an attitude of unconditional love and devotion, honouring you and your sexuality.
How are blockages manifested?
Blockages can manifest themselves physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually. However, its origin is always energetic and it alters long before it manifests itself as something more tangible and concrete. These blocks can appear as common health problems, depression, excessive emotions, mental instability, lack of confidence, fear of intimacy, blockage in the heart, insensitivity, hypersensitivity or sexual difficulties such as:
• premature ejaculation
• erectile dysfunction
• addiction to pornography
• feeling of guilt when masturbating
• addiction to masturbation
• lack of desire
• lack of orgasms
• lack of lubrication
Through a powerful activation of energy, a tantric massage can remedy these blockages. It is the energy aspect that allows transformation at all levels.
Massage of the Lingam, testicles and prostate
In sanskrit, the penis is named Lingam, which means “rod of light” in the neo-tantric language. A tantric massage is a massage of the whole body, from head to toe, including the lingam, the testicles, the perineum and in the case of sexual healing, also the male sacred point, which is located in the prostate.
The difference between a tantric massage and an erotic massage lies in that the erotic one is a sensual massage with a sexual and pleasurable purpose, while the tantric massage works much more on personal development, the expansion of consciousness and spirituality.
During tantric massage, sexual energy is awakened throughout the nervous system, harmonizing the chakras and purifying the energy channels of the whole body. Its purpose is to connect sexuality with love, unblock the sacred point, ascend the Kundalini energy and learn to sublimate this energy and, therefore, contain ejaculation. Therefore, a tantric massage does not have sexual purposes satisfying a lascivious need. Orgasm is not the goal.
The genitals of men and women are powerful organs and reservoirs of energy. In these, stress, blockages, emotions and stagnant wounds also reside. Precisely for this reason, it is extremely important to include the genital organs in the massage.
The Taoist Mantak Chia indicates in his book “Sexual Reflexology” that the sexual organs are the most important reflex points in the body and that, when properly stimulated, they can have a powerful healing effect on the senses and internal organs, providing health and wellness.
And let’s not forget the testicles, the perineum, the anus and the prostate. For many people the anus is a taboo. It is considered a dirty region or is associated with homosexuality. Some men are scared when they take great pleasure in prostate massage having fear of homosexuality.
But both the anus, the perineum and the prostate are an erogenous zone that can cause a lot of pleasure. While there are blockages there may be numbness or stinging that can be alleviated through massage. When the musculature of the anus relaxes, there can be a lot of sensitivity and pleasure. With much affection and respect, I advance to enter this very intimate and sacred space.
Unfortunately nowadays, the massage of the genitals is misinterpreted, either due to beliefs, misinformation or ignorance, forgetting totally that Tantrism is a millennial liberation technique.
What happens during a tantric massage?
A tantric massage session has a long duration to bring you to a state of mental and physical calm. In this process, the parasympathetic nervous system can be activated and trigger healing effects. In addition, this way you are more open to receive and a trust is established that allows opening and releasing repressed blockages.
An essential ingredient of a tantric massage is conscious breathing. Breathing anchors us to the body, helps to expand the energy that is mobilizing within us and rocks us like the waves of the sea, creating states of deep relaxation. It leads us to be fully present and aware.
Before starting the tantric massage, dressed in sarongs, we begin with a ritual of connection and worship that can include breathing excersises, movements, chanting of mantras, mudras or conscious caresses. You can also repeat the intentions expressed in a previous talk to express in a powerful way the desired results. After a while, I invite you to lie down naked on the futon and through massaging and applying pressure on key energy points you will achieve a state of relaxation and surrender. The massage begins first with the less intimate parts of the body, opening channels of energy and dispersing it throughout the body. An important area is the heart chakra. Here many men accumulate blockages.
Once energetically prepared, we proceed to the Lingam massage. The Lingam is not just a physical organ for pleasure or procreation. It is a physical, energetic and symbolic pillar of power, as well as an exceptional energy reservoir. Dispersing this energy throughout the body allows to clear obstructions.
In an authentic Lingam massage, the goal is not an ejaculatory orgasm, which is the opposite of ancient tantric principles. However, sexual energy is contained, maintained, and expanded throughout the body. It is about putting reins on vital energy and not releasing it. This is how energetic full body orgasms for a men can be achieved. The release of semen takes a man away from deep, satisfying and long-lasting pleasure, as well as multiple orgasms, and leaves him without energy (loss of Ojhas = loss of vital fluids).
The massage concludes with a final relaxation to integrate the activated energy and the thoughts and feelings which have come up during the session. The experience is different for each person, but overall, you feel energized, harmonized, and with an overall sense of deep well-being.
The effects and their benefits
With its focus on awakening, activating, and sublimating powerful energy through specialized touch, a tantra massage can bring you significant results and effects:
• Relaxation, vitality and rejuvenation of the whole body.
• Releases tensions produced.
• Relief of blockages and resolution of sexual difficulties.
• Healing of ailments.
• Sensitises the male genitalia.
• Dispersion and control of energy throughout the being.
• An increase in sexual awareness and orgasmic potential.
• Establishes a way of communication between the mind and the body.
• Improves circulation and generates positive energy.
• Release of powerful stored and stuck sexual energy.
• Awakening of the heart.
• Activation of all the chakras.
• Balance of hypersensitivity and hyposensitivity problems.
• Activation of the potential of energetic whole-body orgasm.
In short, it is a wonderful, inspiring and very beneficial experience.